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| Relationships in Korea |
| In Korea, children are brought
up to respect others' feelings and to do everything to avoid upsetting
friends. Koreans feel that "the wise man is ... one who can
make things appear in such a way that all feel at peace, comfortable and
secure". People in Korea avoid giving each other bad news in
the morning and instead postpone it until the end of the day, the end of
the week, or preferably forever. They want to maintain
harmony.
Moreover, greatly influenced by the
ancient philosopher Confucius, the Koreans have a deep respect for their
elders, including parents, teachers, and even school friends who are a
year older than themselves. |
| Email Exchange between Classrooms |
| Questions from the student of
Nagano Nishi High School in Japan; I read Korean people's ways of thinking in the English side read, "Annyon Korea". According to that book, you respect elderly people so much and don't smoke or drink in front of them. Is it true? Please tell me how you respect elders. |
| Answer by a student at Namju High School in
Korea; In Korea, in front of seniors, polite Koreans don't smoke. But these days some rude high school students or young people smoke in front of the old. Old people don't like those rude young people. How about in your country? |
| Answer by a student of
Nagano Nishi High School in Japan; n Japan most people often respect elderly people, but people don't care smoke or drink sake (alcohol) even if they sit just in front of them. I was very surprised to know the difference. |
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